Love is a wonderful thing they say.. But it’s also messy, unpredictable, awkward, complicated, embarrassing, terrifying, sad, and lonely. It can also b warm, exciting, amazing, silly, bizarre, quiet, simple, and breathtaking. Many people think that if only they had a girlfriend/boyfriend, whatever, then everything would b perfect. But it won’t always be. Relationships r difficult. We have 2 work at them, like anything else. They definitely won’t solve all of ur problems. They will probably create plenty of new ones. But u will have someone 2 help u deal with them. And that’s half d battle, sometimes.
You’re going to argue. ur going 2 say the wrong thing, bring up the past, be sarcastic, act more hurt than you really r, shout, swear, cry, break things. Sometimes it’s hard 2 say sorry. If the other person s still angry, they might not b ready to hear it, or still feeling argumentative.
I have had a real serious relationship and it ended in disaster. Love din’t always end d way u thought it would be. We dint realized how much we love the person until he/she is gone. We let them go and din’t fight for our love and we’ll probably say “If only I could change one thing in the world..” blah blah.. We cry for it and regret it.
In the long run, we’ll be thankful for it because being hurt means being strong. I learned that no feeling remain the same intensity over time but under commitment they keep on coming along. It keeps being nourished so it remains strong even if the love takes on a different face. Love isn’t a fairy tale. It is Unconditional.
